Hi, I’m David Loftus — a dating and relationship writer focused on how modern dating actually works.
I don’t write motivational advice or recycled “be yourself” content. My work is about analyzing dating behavior, online dating platforms, attraction patterns, and the psychological dynamics that shape modern relationships.
Why I Write About Dating
Dating today is fundamentally different from what it was even 10 years ago.
Apps, social media, shifting gender expectations, and choice overload have changed how people meet, communicate, and commit. Yet most dating advice still ignores these realities and relies on outdated assumptions.
This site exists to explain:
- how modern dating systems influence behavior
- why certain patterns repeat across dating apps
- what actually creates attraction, connection, and long-term compatibility
My goal is clarity — not comfort.
My Background & Approach
My expertise comes from pattern analysis, not theory alone.
I study:
- online dating platforms and user behavior
- communication dynamics between men and women
- recurring mistakes people make in profiles, messaging, and expectations
- psychological principles behind attraction and rejection
I combine:
- behavioral analysis
- real-world observations
- research in psychology and social dynamics
- first-hand experience analyzing dating interactions
Everything I publish is grounded in how people actually behave, not how dating “should” work.
What You’ll Find on This Site
On david-loftus.com, I publish articles about:
- modern dating psychology
- online dating strategies and mistakes
- attraction dynamics and relationship patterns
- cultural shifts affecting dating and relationships
Some articles are analytical. Others are opinion-based. All are written to help readers understand why dating feels harder — and what’s really happening beneath the surface.
Editorial Standards
Every article is:
- written by me
- reviewed for clarity, logic, and accuracy
- updated when dating platforms or behaviors change
I avoid exaggerated claims, fake success stories, and advice that can’t be explained or defended logically.
This site is informational and educational, not therapy or professional counseling.
Transparency & Contact
I believe trust starts with transparency.
If you want to reach me regarding content, collaborations, or questions about my work, you can contact me here:
Final Note
Dating is not broken — but many people misunderstand how it works today.
My work is about removing confusion, exposing patterns, and helping people see modern dating for what it really is.